Right now

Having been married a while now, my husband and I are secure in our married, with each other.  There is trust and knowing and with that surprisingly comes freedom.

He's no longer suspicious when I want to take off on my own.  He knows I'm not off hunting other cities for another man or having some passionate rendezvous with a stranger.  He knows me well enough now to know it is part of who I am.  I am often my most awake when I'm traveling, on an adventure.

We travel more today together than we use to but I also travel alone.  He has no interest turning up in some strange not very exciting city with no plan to just "check it out."  He likes comfort and luxury and don't get me wrong I love those things too but I would rather stay longer somewhere in a cheap place than short in an expensive place.  So now we do the more luxurious places together and I do my cheap getaways on my own.